My Journey to Becoming a Henna Head- Part 2 Henna Head In Full Effect

I was so intrigued by henna that I had to use the Red Raj henna from Henna Sooq this weekend.  Initially, I was very chicken and a little apprehensive about the process. I read several blogs and visited Henna Sooq's website several times to make sure that I wasn't doing anything that would result in my hair in my hands. The most confusing part was that almost every natural had their own henna mix. A henna mix is a mixture of henna and then other powders, oils, or liquids to activate and/or enhance the conditioning properties of the henna. Some henna heads use orange juice, lemon juice, or green tea. Still others use coconut milk, aloe vera juice, or apple cider vinegar. Then, there are all of the myriad of different types of Aryuvedic and organic powders that can be added to the henna mix. After reading so much that my head began to hurt, so I just sat down and decided what exactly would I add to my mix?

What Did I Use in My Henna Mix?

Liquid #1 : Raspberry Tea-- It was chosen because the first ingredient in raspberry tea is hibiscus. Hibiscus flowers actually enhance the red tones of the henna. I figured that this was a good choice as I wanted the color to be visible on the first time.

Liquid #2: Aloe Vera Juice-- My hair loves aloe vera juice and I also knows it is a gentle liquid. I added it in there to just give an extra moisture boost.

Powder: Aloe Vera Powder (Conditioning/Softening Agent)-- I chose aloe vera powder, because it is known to aid in conditioning the hair and imparting moisture. There are a whole host of benefits from aloe vera including ridding the hair of dandruff and other scalp conditions.

Oil: Coconut/Jamaican Black Castor Oil-- My hair loves this oil and so, I figured why not? But, please note that oils are not be added prior to the dye release. In fact, it's best to add oils AFTER the dye has been released. For the Red Raj henna that I used the dye release time was approximately 3-4 hours. Therefore, I added the oil right before I applied the henna.

Detangling the Hair Before the Henna

It is VERY important that your hair is not matted and/or tangled. Why? Because having matted and tangled hair will make it especially difficult when you are trying to rinse out the henna. I finger detangled and used a little grape seed oil working my fingers carefully down each section and untangling any sections that were mixed together. The detangling process took me about 20-30 minutes. I took my time and made sure that I did not rip out any strands.

How did I apply the Henna Mix?

Prior to applying the henna mix I had to wait until the dye release. As I stated previously, the dye release time for Red Raj henna is 3-4 hours. I mixed together the ingredients and then I put the plastic top on the bowl and set it in the refrigerator for 3 hours. It was a dark green color when I first put it in the refrigerator. However, after the dye release it turned mud brown.

Before applying the henna mix you must section your hair. I used butterfly clips and made about 6 sections-- 3 on each side of my head. I figured it would be much easier if I made the sections small enough that I could work with them.

Wear gloves and make sure you have on old clothes and cover your work space with towels and/or newspaper. The splotches I made with the mixture were minimal, but I was able to clean up afterwards with no remaining henna stains.

Apply the henna as you would deep conditioner and be sure to get each section. I took my time slathering on the henna. I smoothed each section and then clipped it back up until the whole head was complete.

Once the whole head is done cover with a plastic cap or wrap with Saran Wrap. I used the Saran Wrap method because I didn't have any plastic caps. I made sure I wrapped it tight. I wiped any spilled henna, because I didn't want to have orange dye on my skin! Finally, I put my Turbie towel on top and laid a towel on my pillow. I went to bed and slept with the henna in my hair overnight.

The Big Reveal--Fluffy Gets Color

I am quite pleased with the results. My hair aka Fluffy looks and feels good. She has lots of volume and she is holding a twist out VERY well. Also, she feels soft yet strong. The henna did elongate my curls slightly but it also created better definition. #Winning!!!!

After the henna you can see the red highlights where my gray hair used to be.

Rinsing Out Henna 

After sleeping in the henna for about 6 hours I went to my bathroom and hung my head over the tub rinsing, rinsing, and rinsing! I used just plain water with no product at first. I just rinsed each side of my head until I saw the water run clear. This took a little while and to be honest, it didn't feel like it took long. I just stuck my head under the running water and turned slowly from side to side and rinsed. Then, I paid close attention to the front, back, and sides again to ensure that no henna residue remained.

Next, I applied Naturelle Grow Coconut Water Cleansing conditioner. This is a new product for me and I will be doing a full review very soon. I left the conditioner in for about 3 minutes then rinsed it out. Then, I applied TRESemme Naturals Nourishing conditioner and rinsed it out again. Finally, I applied the Naturelle Grow Chamomile Burdock Root conditioner. I left it in my hair and put a plastic bag over it to seal in the moisture for about 15 minutes. I rinsed it out and applied my leave-in, Shea Moisture Yucca and Baobab Hair Milk. I decided to twist my hairs in preparation for a twist out. I used a small amount of the Naturelle Grow Moisturizer to each section for extra moisture.

My Final Verdict

Well, it's only been a day but so far so good. I will continue to update my blog as I share my revelations. This henna journey is exciting and it has revitalized my natural hair journey. My scalp feels clean, but not stripped. This is very important as I have been fighting seborrhea dermatitis for some time. I won't give a final verdict just yet, but for now henna seems to be pretty darned good. 

I'm a henna head!!

My Supplies

• Red Raj Henna
• Aloe Vera Powder
• Raspberry Tea
• Aloe Vera Juice
• Tropic Isle Coconut/Jamaican Black Castor Oil
• Plastic Gloves
• Naturelle Grow Coconut Water Cleansing Conditioner
• TRESemme Naturals Nourishing Conditioner
• Naturelle Grow Chamomile Burdock Root Deep Conditioner
• Shea Moisture Yucca & Baobab Hair Milk
• Naturelle Grow Moisturizer

For more information about Red Raj, Aloe Vera Powder, or other henna products please visit 

Henna Sooq.

To purchase Naturelle Grow products please visit NaturelleGrow on Etsy.

My Journey to Becoming a Henna Head: Getting Started (Part 1)

I've decided to take the plunge. No, I'm not getting married. I'm going to become a henna head! A what? You might ask? I've been told by many that I'm way too young looking to have an 18 year old son. Yes, I said an 18 year old son. Well, I'm glad that mom and dad blessed me with good, youthful genes BUT my hair is being taken over. By what you might ask? I'm having grey hairs pop up all over the place like popcorn. It's as though everyday a new grey hair pops up, mostly around my hair line. Now anyone that knows me, knows that I'm not afraid of grey, but this is ridiculous. I'm not ready to have an entire head full of grey hair. Although I dyed my hair a while ago when I was in college, since my scalp condition I have opted to not go down the road since it would cause more irritation. However, with henna I'm able to use it and there are so many benefits that go beyond hair dye.

What are some of the benefits of henna? 

• Natural red color and/or highlights
• Shiny hair
• Stronger hair
• Rids hair of dandruff

Red Raj  Henna & Aloe Vera Powder
Hennasooq.com

Where do I order henna? I received my lovely package from Henna Sooq. I've had great service and information from this natural company based in Elkeridge, Maryland. This is very convenient, because I live in Maryland, so this is an extra plus for me. The service was fast and the package is neat. Here's a pic of the goodies that arrived.

How did I decide on which henna to order? I want a pop of red highlights, but I wasn't sure which henna to order. I saw on the Henna Sooq website that there was a chat function to connect with a representative. I hit the button and up popped a rep, so friendly and resourceful. I shared with the rep that I want the color to really be bold. She told me that the Jamila henna has warmer color, whereas the red raj is cooler colors.

How did I know how much to order? The amount you order should be based on how long your hair is and how often you plan to henna. Since I have armpit length natural hair, the rep suggested that I get 150 grams of henna.

What will I use to mix with my henna? As you can see from the pic I will use aloe vera powder with my mixture. Basically, I've learned that I should mix the henna and then, mix the aloe vera powder in a separate bowl with water. I'm not using the whole pack of powder only a couple tablespoons. I'll use one box of henna on my first application. Also, I plan to make raspberry tea and add a little grape seed oil to the mix for extra moisture. I won't add the oil to the mix until right before I apply it to my hair. The red raj henna mixture will need to sit for at least 3 hours for the dye release. Different hennas have different dye release times.

For more information on henna or to order please visit www.hennasooq.com

Stay tuned for my journey to henna head adventures! Next up! Applying henna: what to do and why. I will be applying my henna the later part of this week, so check back to see what happens. 

When DIY Becomes S.T.U.P.I.D

I am ALL for learning about your hair and its needs. But, sometimes being a DIY (do it yourself) natural is detrimental. Yes, even professional cosmetologists can truly mess up people's hair through mishaps and irresponsible practices. However, there are times when you don't have the answer and turning to the YouTube and blog "experts" is just not going to cut it. While I have respect for the popular vloggers, mostly all of them do not have medical licenses or even a cosmetologist license. When do you need to step back and get help?

#1. When your scalp is red, badly flaking, and itching MOST days. If you are constantly scratching and seeing flakes the size of a small pet, then it it is time to get help. If you touch your scalp and it is tender. Then, it is time to seek help.

#2. When your hair is shedding more than normal and this has happened for more than a couple weeks. Abnormal shedding is a sure sign that something is going on either externally or internally. On average humans can shed up to 100 hairs a day. If you see a sizable amount of hair above and beyond your normal shed, then that is a red flag.

#3. If you can see through to your scalp without parting it and there is a spot as bald as a baby's butt, then you need to seek professional help. Alopecia is a medical condition that has to be evaluated by a medical professional. A professional can distinguish among the different types of alopecia to determine which type you may have. The different types require varying forms of treatment.

#4. If your scalp has bumps and/or is oozing or weaping fluid then you need to see a doctor. DO NOT pick or mess with areas that have bumps. Bursting a scalp bump can cause infection which can spread to other parts of your body. Putting a warm compress on it can help to draw out the fluid without causing other issues. Gently wipe the fluid away with a warm clean cloth then pat dry with a towel. Seek medical attention if you have this problem.

#5. If you are experiencing health conditions, such as sudden weight gain or weight loss and there is no specific reason, then please seek out help. These issues could signal a whole host of problems and then it's not just about hair--it's life or death.

The bottom line is while you may want to try to solve the problem all on your own, sometimes you have to go to a professional. By professional, I mean a licensed medical doctor. If you are a part of an HMO then your first point of contact would be to go to your primary care and then he or she would write you a referral to the dermatologist.

There are a lot of GREAT homeopathic remedies out there BUT you must be careful and know the side effects of them. Even natural ingredients can worsen your condition or even cause other problems. For example, did you know that rosemary oil should not be used by people with high blood pressure? Some extracts can even cause rashes or heart palpitations for some users. Seeking professional medical help for the initial diagnosis and plan for treatment is key.

Why should you take time to go to the doctor? Well, even though another may have the same symptoms, it may not be the same problem. Some scalp conditions are similar but only a trained professional knows how to diagnose and treat your specific problem. They are trained to analyze the scalp and ask the right probing questions to understand what is going on with your scalp.

Please heed my advice. Initially, I went to the dermatologist and I'm glad I did. I pursued answers about my condition and he provided me with a wealth of information and treatment. The prescription shampoos, ointment, and medication helped me on my journey. Although I have now turned to homeopathic treatment, I am grateful for the treatment I did receive from my medical doctor and dermatologist. Not going to the doctor when something is clearly wrong is like driving without your glasses when you need them to drive.

Readers, when do you determine it is time to go see a doctor for scalp related issues? Can you offer advice to those who are scared or can't afford to see a medical professional?